There’s an old saying in the military community, “Home is where the military sends us.” And when that destination is as breathtaking as O’ahu, it’s hard not to be excited. But as a military spouse who has made the journey myself, I can affirm that the process can be just as nerve-wracking as it is thrilling. From the endless logistics to the emotional roller coaster, PCSing can be overwhelming. That’s why I’m sharing the top five mistakes you should avoid when PCSing to O’ahu. Mistake 1: Failing to Plan Ahead When I received my first PCS order, I underestimated the planning it required. But quickly, I learned that the key…